the child card, reversed rl story example.

[HOLMES]

I did a reading with the lenormand yesterday..

I used the 3 x 3 spread for a friend..
I knew they had a child ,, the child was reversed, and I know hardly anyone uses the reversals..or postions.
still I was going with base meaning of the child,, it representing a child in some form.

when she shared with me , my client at the time ,, that how she didnt' want to work In that job.
and the reason was that a teen had commited suicided,, not on her watch but she feared what if that happened on her watch.(some sort of counciler for native children ). i was reading child reversed how she could be fearful of her own child suffering from politics so i was there.
yet it was because i did't have the frame of referece in my mind to see the possible connection.
there was a snake by the child card but no coffin..

it affected me for due to losing my own precious two years ago, now three i a couple of weeks. i know seeing the child reversed wouldn't mean that , this was just one specific incident , like how rana George uses her story to give additional meaning to her lenormand meanings in her book.
yet if i put more depth into asking about her career , what she used to do, stil i may not have put the two to two togeher, just her sharing gave her personal meaning to the child card.. and expanded mine is what i am saying. that sometimes a child isnt' just a child but children overall i am guess is what i mean.

[Diana]

that sometimes a child isnt' just a child but children overall i am guess is what i mean.

There is a wonderful Zulu or Xhosa saying that says "any child is my child".

And your own loss was apparent in the cards - they were speaking to you too I think. I know how much this hurt you. They would like to comfort you I think.

[HOLMES]

ah yes..

I thought about this when I went to town..
when I raise my vibration before a reading, , the key thing I am trying to do is make myself impartial as I can.
so the cards reflect the person In front of me..

I do remember one time I was reading for another person long ago on atf, and remarked how I learned a lot doing her or his reading and they wondered if I had read for myself instead of for them. the truth is , every reading gives a bit of teaching to me..
as since the filter for the information comes through for me,, I helps expand my knowledge.

I do know that my own losses helped me though in several reading to connect to the client to help them with their losses.